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When You’re the Problem: On Accountability and Self-Reflection
Explore how accountability and self-reflection can lead to personal growth, stronger connections, and greater self-confidence. Uncover practical steps and methods to face your fears and transform your life. I’ll admit it proudly: I’m a Swiftie. Unless you’re living under a rock, you’ve probably heard the anthem of accountability and self-reflection: Anti-Hero. Of course, this song…
I had a miscarriage… & it wasn’t what I expected
There are billions of women all throughout time who have experienced the pain of miscarriage. Often alone, in silence, and in shame. We don’t talk about it. We don’t share our stories. We don’t want to. I don’t want to, but I will. For our grief, and for anyone who this helps to feel less…
Grief and Trauma: On Grieving A Parent Who Hurt You
parental grief and trauma: missing someone who hurt you This is a heavy subject, but it’s one I feel needs to be talked about. If you’ve read my father’s story, you’ll know that I lost my dad to alcoholism when I was only nine years old. That in itself was extremely hard, painful, and traumatizing,…
From Shame and Abuse To Belonging and Authenticity
Walk from shame, trauma, and narcissistic abuse to belonging and authenticity in this informative exploration. Glean insights into trauma, narcissistic abuse, and the quest for belonging, and find empowerment through self-reflection, self-care, and reclaiming your identity. living in silence Time to get sensitive. I really, really struggle with feeling like I belong. When I open…
Trauma Dumping vs. Seeking Support: What’s the Difference?
This article delves into the intricacies of trauma dumping, shedding light on its characteristics and potential consequences. Through exploration, you’ll learn to differentiate between seeking support and engaging in unhealthy emotional expression, ultimately providing insights on how to cultivate and sustain meaningful relationships. Is there anyone out there who can help me? If you’ve ever…
Rethinking Hookup Culture: Feminism, Sex, and the Quest for Genuine Intimacy
In a world colored by the allure of hookup culture and casual sex, a deeper truth emerges—one that reveals the impact on women’s autonomy, intimacy, and the broader landscape of modern relationships and feminism. Join me on the path towards genuine intimacy, to dissect the deceptive allure, and unravel the hidden layers behind hookup culture’s…
Disney’s ‘Encanto’, Generational Trauma, and Family Systems Theory
Dive deep into the transformative messages of Disney’s ‘Encanto’ as it unravels the complexities of generational trauma, toxic family systems, and the power of healing. Explore how the movie’s characters mirror Family Systems Theory, uncovering the roles, struggles, and interconnected dynamics within the Madrigal family. Discover the profound lessons this enchanting narrative offers on breaking…
Self-Care is Not Selfish: The Recovering People Pleaser’s Dilemma
Finally, a real and nuanced answer to the question: is self-care selfish? This article discusses the importance of self-care as a gateway to giving, explores our responsibilities to our families and communities, and equips the reader with practical strategies for harmonizing these seemingly divergent priorities. “Yes” Woman As a recovering people pleaser, I used to…
Imagination: a Gateway to Personal Growth and Discovery
Embark on a transformative journey where the realms of imagination and personal growth converge. Discover how nurturing your inner child’s dreams can lead to profound self-discovery and ignite your passions. Let’s explore the boundless potential of imagination and its power to shape a brighter, more fulfilling future.
The Anatomy of a Strong & Healthy Partnership
Uncover the secrets to building a lasting love. Explore the key elements of a healthy romantic partnership – communication, trust, and more. Dive into the essential components that can transform your relationship into a source of joy and connection.
Grief, Loss, and the Holiday Season
If grief is in your heart this holiday season, I’d love to offer some wisdom, love, and reassurance for you. Let’s unravel strategies for being present amidst the echoes of the past and find solace in the collective warmth that binds us, even in moments tinged with grief. My Holly Jolly Heartbreak The holiday season—the…
The Resurgence of Homesteading and Slow Living
Our lives move faster each day we live them, it seems. Every birthday and new year seem more recent than the last. I die a little inside every time I hear that one of my favorite songs just turned 10 years old… or 20, or 30. Growing older is a privilege, and it’s one that…
On Generational Trauma: Forging a New Legacy
Learn how generational trauma is passed down and discover the path to breaking the cycle, forging a legacy of resilience. I share a piece of my family’s story with you to demonstrate a tale of resilience and healing that transcends time and generations. An Eternal Pain We had another death in the family recently. It…
What is Codependency? Healing the Need to Rescue
In the quest for independence and healthier relationships, codependency has been both a survival method and a my own downfall. Join me on a journey to explore the profound lessons it taught me and the liberation that comes with letting go and healing. When you hear the term, “codependency,” what comes to mind? Do you…
Building Bridges: Overcoming Miscommunication in Relationships
I love my partner. We share so many laughs, smiles, values, dreams, and most importantly, so much love. But sometimes I feel like we speak two completely different languages. We got into a fight a couple of weeks ago because we both had very understandable, human insecurities, we voiced them to each other, and it…
