self-love
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Post-Accomplishment Depression: You Got What You Wanted—So Why Aren’t You Happy?
So you finally did it, you achieved your goal! Congratulations! Whatever it was, you made it. You should be over the moon, right? So why do you still feel… empty?Why are you lying awake at night wondering why it doesn’t feel the way you thought it would? You’re not broken. You’re not ungrateful. You’re just…
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Emotional Sobriety: How Recovery Goes Deeper Than Abstinence
When you think of addiction recovery, you probably think of abstaining from substances—drugs, alcohol, maybe even things like food, gambling, or shopping. But here’s the truth that no one tells you: The real battle doesn’t end with the substance. It’s not just about staying clean. It’s about what comes after, when you’ve cleaned up the…
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The 10 Essentials You Need to Start Your Wellness Journey
Starting your wellness journey can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. With the right tools, you can create a strong foundation and set yourself up for success. In this post, I’ll share the 10 essentials you need to start feeling your best—no gimmicks, just practical items that truly make a difference. Ready to…
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When You’re the Problem: On Accountability and Self-Reflection
Explore how accountability and self-reflection can lead to personal growth, stronger connections, and greater self-confidence. Uncover practical steps and methods to face your fears and transform your life. I’ll admit it proudly: I’m a Swiftie. Unless you’re living under a rock, you’ve probably heard the anthem of accountability and self-reflection: Anti-Hero. Of course, this song…
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Under the Mask: The Reality of Being ‘High-Functioning’
“High functioning” just means you’re really great at hiding when you’re struggling. Let’s talk more in-depth about what that means, how to cope, and fighting the stigma. on the surface… I had straight A’s in second grade when my dad was deported. Fourth grade, too, when he died. I graduated high school two months after…
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What is Shadow Work, and How Do I Do It?
Within each of us, under the surface that we show to others, is a dark side, or a shadow self just beneath our skin. It sounds like a supervillain origin story when I put it that way, but I’m really just talking about the psychological concept of shadow work. What is Shadow Work? Within the…
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Build Your Sense of Self & Self-Esteem: Solving Your Identity Crisis
Are you struggling to find your sense of self and build self-esteem in a world filled with conflicting identities and societal pressures? Read on to uncover the building blocks to your sense of self, while solving the puzzle of your identity crisis. Society’s Perpetual Identity Crisis We live in a culture with a perpetual identity…
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Self-Care Practices for the New Year: Renew, Refresh, Reconnect
Unveil the secrets to a harmonious life through the art of self-care – embrace renewal, balance, and vitality as we journey together into a realm of holistic well-being. As the curtains draw on another year, we find ourselves standing at the threshold of new beginnings. The New Year arrives like a whisper, carrying with it…
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Living with C-PTSD, Childhood Emotional Neglect, and Shame: A Personal Journey
Let’s talk about Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD), Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN), and the gripping weight of shame. Explore the origins of these challenges, their wide-ranging effects, and the transformative path towards reclaiming emotional well-being, self-acceptance, and empowerment.
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The Importance of Failure: Building Resilience & Self-Compassion
Before the sixth grade, I was a straight-A student. School was where I found my identity, sense of purpose, community, and confidence. I wanted to be the smartest kid in class. I wanted approval and praise from my teachers, and I got it.